Happy morning! The Ovulation days are here!
Wow these are the day to conceive and be in the act!
It feels like jitters and butterflies within!
It feels happy and cozy all around!
Well you guys know it all about the act. So I am not going to discuss how and what to do, instead I would like to touch upon few must haves …
Like I mentioned earlier – do not take this act as just a baby making act but indulge and make love! Indulge in a quick morning round or an extensive whole day steaming hot moments of togetherness! The more you are together the better are the chances of conception. :)
Even though everyone knows the rules of sex – the universally known pleasurable act, one needs to keep in mind the 4 KAMA MANTRAS OF CONCEPTION….
So let’s start with the first chant … Oooaaammm… ;) just kidding!
- CHOOSE A POSITION THAT ENSURES A DEEP PENETRATION
The science of conception in Ayurveda suggests to choose a position that ensures a deep penetration. Also it is important to get in to the position where cervix is easily accessible. Though there are a lot of positions like Missionary, Doggy, Glowing Triangle and Anvil, that ensures these two mandates, yet all of them except missionary creates some or the other flaws/ doshas in the baby. Thus the sole position that Ayurveda suggests is the mundane yet effective - Missionary.
- FOREPLAY IS A MUST
There is a witty yet funny quote:
“Go down a water slide without water and you’ll understand why foreplay is important.” ;)Well it is important at the time of conception specifically as it creates a conducive environment for the survival of sperm.
Well it is said that, the more you enjoy and forget worries, the more happy sperms would be ejaculated, as oppose to shorter and stressed intimate time that leads to less number of sperm ejaculation.
Thus…
Think of it as fun time for both rather than focusing on the Finish Line!
- CONTENT FEELING IS IMPORTANT AND NOT THE ORGASM FOR WOMAN.
There is a myth across that, “great sex means having at least one Orgasm”. However, Dr. Sathe suggests to focus on contentment and satisfaction rather than focusing on the climax.
Well if you get one, there’s nothing like it, however, it’s not a mandate scientifically!
- SINGLE DROP OF SPERM DOES THE MAGIC.
Ta-da! Don’t all of us know this?
We do know this yet many of us tried the abdomen uplift trick post the act.
After reading this trick it made real sense to me. By lifting your abdomen and placing a pillow below the thigh after the act gives gravity to the sperm and makes sperm’s movement into the cervix easy. It has purely psychological connect says Dr. Shipra.
On the contrary, Dr. Sathe says this act doesn’t have any scientific roots. People follow all type of tips and tricks like no getting up after the act or sleeping in a single position and keeping the abdomen lifted whole night. Sometimes if the semen comes out of the woman’s body – it is perceived as a personal defect and affects emotionally!
Please don’t bother yourself with this small thing.
As per both Ayurveda as well as modern science a single drop of semen contains 10 million sperms. So even if one gets up after the act, doesn’t follow the abdomen uplift tip and move around after the act the chances of conceiving will be equally high!
This brings me to the end of this article, where I would like to stress upon the fact that….
“This can be your last sex session before any changes in yourself.”
Once conceived you will be a TO BE PARENT!!! So spend these moments wisely ;).
BE HAPPY AND POP A UNICORN!
रिchie
Good writeup!
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